Fire and Ice: The Work Of Opposing Forces To Create A River Of Healing

  I am at the point of exhaustion where my mind has turned to mush; So much so that sentence made think of mashed potatoes. But, my mind will not shut down which is usually the case when I’m on the cusp of some major breakthrough. I had this dream the other night and call me crazy, but I put a lot of stock into…

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Unmasking Borderline Personality Disorder

Growing up with a borderline mother I had to treat myself as if I were a borderline by default, or by proxy (however you want to look at it) in adulthood. There is one very clear, definitive line, that separates me from my mother though; and that is my self-awareness. At the age of nineteen, I began my process of healing and treated myself as…

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Coffee with President Obama

  Who am I to teach, preach, or blog like I have it all figured out when in fact the only thing I have figured out is that I have nothing figured out at all! I am constantly reminded that if I want my blog traffic to grow I have to conform. But, conformity to me is giving advice I don’t have or making  lists…

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Living Without Purpose: The Limiting of Our Expectations

I am an extreme thinker and by that I mean when I have an idea I follow it like a trail of breadcrumbs to its end. In a recent post, I talked about expectations (click the word expectations to read the previous post) and the limitations they put on not only your relationship with other people but the person themselves. By that I mean when we…

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The Magic of Unicorn Farts and Fairy Dust

My impending divorce has shaken my world and not in the negative way I once thought. In the beginning and with our past separation I thought my life was over as my world had been torn apart; which I now realize was my codependent frame of mind. Speaking of codependency, there is a 12 step program modeled after AA and adapted for the specific needs…

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